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	<description>No bullshit self-help. Get a grip on yourself. Take responsibility. Do it.</description>
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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
		<link>http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/dont-be-offended/comment-page-1/#comment-1512</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 00:22:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Get off your soapbox, loser.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Get off your soapbox, loser.</p>
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		<title>By: Al</title>
		<link>http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/dont-be-offended/comment-page-1/#comment-1504</link>
		<dc:creator>Al</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2011 09:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are a lot of offended people commenting on this article on how not to be offended.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are a lot of offended people commenting on this article on how not to be offended.</p>
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		<title>By: nancy sandoval</title>
		<link>http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/dont-be-offended/comment-page-1/#comment-1499</link>
		<dc:creator>nancy sandoval</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2011 11:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bryan,  how many people did you offend today? Or yesterday? Or last week? I never want to offend anyone. Especially the people that I care about. If I&#039;m bringing joy to someone and they don&#039;t care if they offend me, there is something that person is not saying.  Maybe, your definition of joy, and their definition of joy, are totally different.  You should have an in depth conversation with this person and find out if you are wasting your time.
Good luck Bryan, I hope all your joy is in the right place.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bryan,  how many people did you offend today? Or yesterday? Or last week? I never want to offend anyone. Especially the people that I care about. If I&#8217;m bringing joy to someone and they don&#8217;t care if they offend me, there is something that person is not saying.  Maybe, your definition of joy, and their definition of joy, are totally different.  You should have an in depth conversation with this person and find out if you are wasting your time.<br />
Good luck Bryan, I hope all your joy is in the right place.<br />
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
		<link>http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/dont-be-offended/comment-page-1/#comment-1491</link>
		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2011 03:02:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regina,
Why are you saying &#039;f u&#039; to me, while cheering Alicia on, when we both said essentialy the same thing?  I&#039;m not offended by your comment, just curious as  to your point of view.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regina,<br />
Why are you saying &#8216;f u&#8217; to me, while cheering Alicia on, when we both said essentialy the same thing?  I&#8217;m not offended by your comment, just curious as  to your point of view.</p>
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		<title>By: Regina</title>
		<link>http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/dont-be-offended/comment-page-1/#comment-1485</link>
		<dc:creator>Regina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 23:43:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank u so much 4 that. B sure to read my post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank u so much 4 that. B sure to read my post.</p>
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		<title>By: Regina</title>
		<link>http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/dont-be-offended/comment-page-1/#comment-1484</link>
		<dc:creator>Regina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 23:40:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You go Alecia! AMEN! f u Robin!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You go Alecia! AMEN! f u Robin!</p>
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		<title>By: Alecia</title>
		<link>http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/dont-be-offended/comment-page-1/#comment-1482</link>
		<dc:creator>Alecia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Aug 2011 21:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s funny that you say that you aren&#039;t here to tell people what to do, yet you are telling people when they do or do not have the right to be offended. And what moral code are you using here? Who says that what you are saying is true? Maybe someone does have a right to be offended if someone doesn&#039;t adhere to the dress code, or if someone says something that goes against their religion.  Who are you to say that they don&#039;t? What makes you right? And it is just your &quot;opinion&quot; and you aren&#039;t trying to tell anyone what to do, then your blog is meaningless. Just sayin&#039;...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s funny that you say that you aren&#8217;t here to tell people what to do, yet you are telling people when they do or do not have the right to be offended. And what moral code are you using here? Who says that what you are saying is true? Maybe someone does have a right to be offended if someone doesn&#8217;t adhere to the dress code, or if someone says something that goes against their religion.  Who are you to say that they don&#8217;t? What makes you right? And it is just your &#8220;opinion&#8221; and you aren&#8217;t trying to tell anyone what to do, then your blog is meaningless. Just sayin&#8217;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Aug 2011 02:32:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry, I&#039;ve got feelings and they tend to leak out.  
The problem with telling people to &quot;get over it&quot; is you&#039;re being just as hung up as the people who&#039;re getting upset in the first place.   You  have a problem with sensitive types? Guess what? That probably means you&#039;re sensitive, too.  And waaaaay too hung-up about emotions to tolerate tears, upset, and emotions in general.  You&#039;re probably uncomfortable around overly joyous people too.   
Bunch of frickin&#039;  crybabies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry, I&#8217;ve got feelings and they tend to leak out.<br />
The problem with telling people to &#8220;get over it&#8221; is you&#8217;re being just as hung up as the people who&#8217;re getting upset in the first place.   You  have a problem with sensitive types? Guess what? That probably means you&#8217;re sensitive, too.  And waaaaay too hung-up about emotions to tolerate tears, upset, and emotions in general.  You&#8217;re probably uncomfortable around overly joyous people too.<br />
Bunch of frickin&#8217;  crybabies.</p>
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		<title>By: anunomus</title>
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		<dc:creator>anunomus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 19:06:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This way of thinking is helpful for the obsessed types, however for the non-obsessed types it may just lead to apathy in certain situations.  It depends on if doing/saying something will really make a difference or matter.  In some situations it won&#039;t in others it does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This way of thinking is helpful for the obsessed types, however for the non-obsessed types it may just lead to apathy in certain situations.  It depends on if doing/saying something will really make a difference or matter.  In some situations it won&#8217;t in others it does.</p>
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		<title>By: Rick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 04:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Everytime when I returned home from work, if my neighbour (who is directly opposite my unit) also happened to returned home, she will slammed her main door really loud. The first time, I thought she has heavy-hand. But it appeared the 2nd and 3rd time, I beginning to think she has some issues towards me, am I too sensitive? I can&#039;t seems to ignore it but of course I did not retaliate by slamming my door. I don&#039;t even know her neither did we greet each other. I mean, I don&#039;t even know this person, why is she being so rude? Am I being overly sensitive here?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everytime when I returned home from work, if my neighbour (who is directly opposite my unit) also happened to returned home, she will slammed her main door really loud. The first time, I thought she has heavy-hand. But it appeared the 2nd and 3rd time, I beginning to think she has some issues towards me, am I too sensitive? I can&#8217;t seems to ignore it but of course I did not retaliate by slamming my door. I don&#8217;t even know her neither did we greet each other. I mean, I don&#8217;t even know this person, why is she being so rude? Am I being overly sensitive here?</p>
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