Not just to fail, but to do anything you like. Give yourself permission to go out and get smashed. Give yourself permission to have a duvet day or pull a sickie.
It’s OK. The world will not fall apart.
If you harbor guilt and you’re looking over your shoulder, you’re not looking in front of you.
So what do you want to do? You want to say to your wife “Listen, I’m going out with the boys”? Say it. MTFU and give yourself permission.
You want to tell your husband “I don’t feel like cooking for you tonight?” Don’t say that. Say “I’m not cooking for you tonight.”
You asked yourself, so you asked all the people that mattered, and they said it was OK.
The only person that matters is you.
Give yourself permission.
