Comments on: Say what you mean http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/say-what-you-mean/ Get a grip on life - take responsibility for yourself - be in control of your own life Thu, 09 Sep 2010 12:05:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Deborah http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/say-what-you-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-554 Deborah Thu, 10 Jun 2010 13:41:00 +0000 http://www.howtogetagrip.com/?p=221#comment-554 I LOVED this article. Co-dependency upon others reactions is dangerous. I've learned this finally, after 41 years. Yes or No are still full sentences! I LOVED this article.
Co-dependency upon others reactions is dangerous. I’ve learned this finally, after 41 years.
Yes or No are still full sentences!

]]> By: Ben http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/say-what-you-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-437 Ben Fri, 14 May 2010 18:59:21 +0000 http://www.howtogetagrip.com/?p=221#comment-437 I think you did a nice job balancing the two sides out. I agree with you that when you do what YOU want to do and start being honest with yourself and others it saves EVERYONE TIME. I also think that SELF SATISFACTION is not as eternal as a feeling as PEER SATISFACTION, so sometimes it is better to lay your needs aside and satisfy the other party. All in all, this have become one of my new websites to read. Thanks. I think you did a nice job balancing the two sides out. I agree with you that when you do what YOU want to do and start being honest with yourself and others it saves EVERYONE TIME. I also think that SELF SATISFACTION is not as eternal as a feeling as PEER SATISFACTION, so sometimes it is better to lay your needs aside and satisfy the other party.

All in all, this have become one of my new websites to read. Thanks.

]]> By: Walter http://www.howtogetagrip.com/2010/say-what-you-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-128 Walter Mon, 22 Feb 2010 05:16:46 +0000 http://www.howtogetagrip.com/?p=221#comment-128 I call that straight talk. Most of the time, we need say our side than to be afraid of not pleasing someone. We are the ones who suffer in the end anyway. :-) I call that straight talk. Most of the time, we need say our side than to be afraid of not pleasing someone. We are the ones who suffer in the end anyway. :-)

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