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Stressed living up to other people’s expectations? STOP!

Ambition is healthy as long as it’s YOUR ambition.

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You: EUREKA! I know exactly what I want to do! I want to be a nurse and look after sick people!

Well-meaning relative: Brilliant! I can only encourage you. And what’s great about that is that being a nurse is only one step away from being a doctor! And once you’ve qualified as a doctor you can specialise in surgery, and then plastic surgery. Once you’ve got a few years of experience and a bit of a name for yourself, you can open your own practice, maybe in Beverly Hills, and then, with a couple of decades of heavy self-promotion and long hours you can get your own TV show, write a couple of books and employ a dozen staff and by the age of fifty-five you’ll be earning millions and you’ll never have to work again.

You: But I want to be a nurse …

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Listen, repeat.

“What I do for a living is not who I am, it is what I do for a living”.

You will not be judged by people who are worth your while for being brilliant at sorting the staples, mastering the photocopier or licking envelopes fast.

You might not be the best at staff evaluations or the quickest with spreadsheets, but IT DOESN’T MATTER.

Sure, it’s a bonus if you get to do what you like to do for a living, but GET REAL. Most of us don’t.

Live with it, and make sure that your time away from work is worthwhile.

Your friends will be your friends irrespective of your ability to close the deal. Just be consistent, don’t be an ass, and get a handle.

You only get one chance. Don’t waste it.

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